meeting the right guy
okaay.. i'm in my swinging mood. again. haha! cause i have problems with my bf. i wanted to ask you guys. how do you guys know when you meet the right guy? cause after all this times i dated guys, i can't tell. they're not perfect (of course), but i still can't even tell. i always ended up blaming myself choosing the wrong guy to date. i never date a guy for a year! and i think that's bad. moreover, when i look at my friends who got long term relationships, i thought, there is something wrong with me! why can't i do that too? is it the guy? or is it me? do i have a commitment problem? to make me feel good about myself, i'm starting to think that i HAVEN'T found someone good for myself. being in a relationship should be about feeling good, happy and being yourself. and if a relationship doesn't make you all three of them, maybe you should work it or not meant to be.